So as I'm trying to figure out what I need to do to get in a relationship, I've come across this idea of clicking, or "chemistry". A lot of people say that you either have it with someone or you don't, and I don't really like that because it suggests that you are just predetermined to only have chemistry with a certain group of people. What if you don't like any of them? What if you are just predetermined to not have chemistry with anyone, are you just doomed to be alone?
I'd like to believe that a person can learn to create chemistry, for a number of reasons. As of right now, I have no idea how to even begin creating it, and I'd also like to be as proactive as possible in terms of who I date - I'd like to be able to influence things to go my way as much as possible, by being able to create chemistry with someone that I actually desire.
What do you think? Can you learn to create chemistry with anyone you want?
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So the proper place for this line of inquiry is pua forums. Try not to memorize rote routines, rather learn underlying principles, get better at reading people (women) and adjusting to emphasize the aspects of yourself at the right time that build chemistry (and rapport).
Then, use these powers for good, not evil.0