I have a diagnosis of severe depression but it's been in remission for a few years now. It could come back but I work hard at keeping it under control and I'm now very healthy. Is this a deal breaker?
Guys, would you date a depressive? What about marriage?
What Guys Said 9
Been there, done that.
The consequences for the guy range from being left behind to her mild/major addictions to frequent dramas.
So there has to be plenty of upside to balance that see-saw.
Many like you can have a happy life but the depression persists; best to focus outside of yourself, serving others and looking at life's happy gifts instead of depression topics, thoughts, et al.2
I don't know why but i fall for depressed girls.
It can literally suck the life out of someone. If you're going to be depressed don't guilt trip people. It's pretty rare to find those types of guys like myself.
Me personally, i was interested in someone and still am. I found out she has depression, not sure of what but she has it.
My friend is trying to turn me off from her, but she's amazing. didn't think of her differently because she is depressed. If anything i wanted to help her and still am trying to get her to trust me subtly.
And yea, my end goal is to get married to her.
Seriously, there's a difference in depressed people. As long as you don't go in circles, get aggressive, make suicide or cutting statements you'll be fine. I find that that really is a turn off for guys but for me personally that makes me depressed.1
YES i would! Ur like a fallen bird with a broken wings. I'll take u home and get chu fixed anytime of the day. I'd do anything for u to keep u happy. If ur depressed, ill be there whenever u need meh and listen to u venting out ur frustrations the entire day juz as long as it makes u happy. As long as ur happy, im happy ^1
Yes i would date a depressive. I'd do what i can to understand her and help her through the tough time she's going through.1
I don't think so. I'm kind of depressing myself, even though I've never been diagnosed. I'd actually fancy a woman who was more serious about things.1
I couldn't do it. That stuff is contagious for me.1
I think I have to control that shit too. I need to have a funny and good mood all time otherwise I will start feeling bad. is that a sign of depression. idk?1
Yes because I also struggle w depression and would like someone who understands.1
No I wouldn't. I want to be happy.1
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