Girls: What would you think if your boyfriend didn't want you to tell your friends about the stuff that goes on in your relationship because he believes that a relationship is between 2 people only and friends don't have a right to know what goes on between a couple and what goes on in a relationship should stay between the couple
What would you think
Most Helpful Girl
id like knowing private things are not going to be blabbed and trivialized by people who dk me nor do i want them to.
but also when you rely on others to solve problems in your relationships bc you dont want to bother your so or you dont want them knowing something bothers you, i think thats a weak relationship.
when people are always going to their friends, it makes it seem as if they have actually discussed the issue but they really have not, bc they never mentioned it to the partner.
talking to other people about things you could/ should talk to your partner about does dammage. bc of what happens and bc of what does not happen.
i see a lot of things on the net about how : if women want to talk about feelings and things that are bothering them, talk to your friends bc guys dont care about how you or they feel, and or dont want to let you see that they care. or how guys shouldn't tell women how they really feel, or about whats bothering them bc women dont want to know guys get bothered by anything. So therefore it will ruin the relationship if you communicate honestly, so talk to a friend instead...
im thinking of s/ he doesn't want to talk about things that bother him/ her and vice versa. wtf is s/ he doing in a relationship, and what exactly makes it a relationship when there's little to no relating.
its good to know if there's an issue YOU are going to be the go-to person for your partner. if you have 100 demi partners wandering around right next to the relationship. nothing will ever get done and there won't be real trust.
sometimes you might need help figuring out how to explain something in a way that your partner will understand, or you just need to vent.
in a healthy relationship, these things re not done in place of communication, and they can be done with strangers that will never be a part of your regular life... like on gag... or a shrink. or relationship counselor.0