A while back a guy friend (not a super close friend) asked to meet up for coffee. We did, and when we went to order and pay there was a hesitation about who was going to pay - he didn't immediately offer to, so to avoid awkwardness I jumped in and told the cashier we'd pay separately (to be fair only $1.50 each). We talked for a good 2-3 hours and hugged goodbye.
I still have no clue if it was a date or not. Any ideas on how to tell if I never asked?
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He is still wondering if it was a date or not either. Seriously, I bet you both got the same question lol :)
If he ran up and insisted he might feel like he's making a date and if you didn't want it to be a date then he's self-conscious about over extending his bounds. If he insisted that you both go dutch then that is like declining a date or dating and being stingy. None of the outcomes are acceptable, so he just locked up. It was convenient you ran up to the cashier and sort of saved it.
The real thing to think about is how did a 2-3 hour conversation go? How was the hug goodbye? That'll tell you your date right there.0