I like this guy. he shows a lot of interest in me but yet he doesn't ask me out! He asked me out when I first met him but I rejected him cause I was in a relationship at the time and I told him we can be friends, and he seemed cool with that.
The only time he asks me out is when he's with my brother or a group of friends, and we all go out together, like he doesn't ask me out on one on one dates. If he were just normal with me then I would just think he just wants to be my friend. But he flirts and shows a ton of interest in me, so that is why I don't get it. He is also not a shy person, so I can't even chalk it up to that. My friends said I am too "reserved" when I don't think that. But what could this mean? Do I have to be the one to ask him out or something? Or does it sound like he is just not interested? Tell me your thoughts on this, thank you! :)
Most Helpful Girl
Omg! THis sounds just like the situation I'm in! My opinion, is that he might be intimidated by you. SOmetimes I feel like that's the case with what's going on with me, because I can be such an independent person, and have always been used to doing things on my own.
The next time your around him, try making him feel good about himself. Compliment him on his shirt, jeans, cologne, shoes, exc., or ask him to do something "manly" for you.
Like opening a jar you can't get open or fixing something, if he's handy.
Good luck, and let me know what happens between you two!0