Whenever someone says they're "too busy for a relationship" - is this always a polite way of saying "I'm not interested in a relationship with you" or is it possible?
I've seen people on here say that people will always find time for a relationship, but what if the person legitimately works 60-hour weeks, including weekends? How do you find time for a relationship when you don't have much free time to speak of?
Has anyone "made time" for a relationship when you were, otherwise, very very busy? How did you make it work?
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I've said I'm too busy for a relationship even to guys who I sort of liked I just never thought it was fair to be in a relationship where I couldn't be there as often as they or I wanted. I've tried to make time for a relationship and it ended horribly, we both ended up getting hurt badly and we don't talk anymore. With a different guy he wouldn't officially commit because "I know I'm going to let you down if we're in a relationship and I don't want that to happen" his words. We were both busy people and it was always him breaking off plans with me because he'd have to work, he forgot whatever he had an excuse for everything and then when I got tired of it I ended it. It hurt a lot more because we had something vs a different guy who I told straight up I don't have a lot of time, we're friends now and I'm glad we didn't hurt each other like the other 2 'relationships' I had but u also believe you don't find time for someone if they mean a lot. You make time.1