I very seriously take personality over looks. A guy can be 250lbs and if he had an awesome personality I'd go for him anyway. I told that to some new girl friends and they just... laughed at me! They are only a year younger too. Even the guys were like yeah right? I am serious though. Is that not the way it works in the real world with mature people? Am I just a phony? I just feel really bad after this. They are new friends and I was being honest... I'm almost horrified that they seriously seriously didn't agree! Seems over the top for me. Seems like something I figured out years ago. Shouldn't people my age (24) have already figured this out?
I told some guys I take personality over looks... they all laughed at me and now I feel embarrassed? Did make a wrong call?
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NO YOU DID NOT MAKE A WRONG CALL AT ALL. In fact, you made the right call on this one. I feel the same way. You wanna find someone who has an amazing personality, like someone who can make you laugh. In the end, we're all gonna get old and wrinkly and not so attractive. So why go for looks? Looks fade, but personality will always be the same.0
They are small minded and foolish. In the end, you will be the one who is happiest with the love you shall find, because you went with personality, not just looks.0
There is absolutely nothing wrong in choosing personality over looks. That's your personal preference and nobody has a right to judge you for that.
Your sweet and understanding, not to mention highly mature friends won't get this. But that's ok. Just because THEY think its stupid or whatever doesn't mean you should stop being who you are. Be proud of it.0
You made a great decision. I am the same way and get laughed at but I give everyone a chance and find only the nicest of guys0
No, you're right. Looks don't matter. You're right, for going for a person's personality. :)0
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