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When I originally clicked on it I was sure no one would say they were dating someone they didn't find handsome or pretty. I really didn't know this was a thing!
So like...why? Can you be content in a relationship like this? I know beauty isn't everything, but it's pretty dang important in this circumstance (or so I thought).
Why would you date someone you're not attracted to?
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What Guys Said 8
I don't think I could date someone I wasn't even remotely attracted to.. I'd have to be attracted to her in some capacity to notice her in that way.2
I would date someone Im not attracted to, but attraction is not just a physical thing. So if the person is pretty, but a real jerk, there would be no dating.1
No I wouldnt, if I dont find someone physically attractive as well as mentally stimulating then its not going to be a healthy relationship. Because while beauty isn't everything I believe that if you are going to date someone you should find them beautiful.1
I think beauty is skin deep, i saw some girl with short hair, she was a tomboy, i fell over hills for her but i never got her number or anything , she ask this older woman who i was so she must liked being checked out0
desperate to be with someone0
Its not always possible to date people who are good looking, especially if you are not good looking yourself.0
What Girls Said 9
Depends, sometimes a persons personality is enough to make up for their lack of physical attraction.
Also sometimes unattractive people do become physically attractive because of their personality.1
Well they just might not think that other people would find them attractive. For example I used to have the hots for this guy I worked with because he was funny and he made me feel good about myself. However he wasn't attractive in the traditional sense but I really liked his arms.1
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Well i don't. I am very bad at faking those things also. So i don't see any reason to date with someone that i don't find attractive. It is just a time loss.
Also the thing is i need to find him attractive , not everyone :) If he is attractive to me, way to go!0
No. There has to be physical attraction for me to date someone. Looks aren't everything, and my personality has to mesh with his as well. Both are apart of a healthy relationship.1
they're probably fug and can't get a person they find attractive
or theyre in it for the money0
I did it once because I felt my standards were too high and maybe if I gave something else I chance it would end up being better than I thought... Long story short, worst relationship of my life. Don't lower your standards.1
If I'm not attracted to them I couldn't date them. It wouldn't end up working out. There has to be something I'm attracted to in order for it to work out. OR else what's the point after all you do have to look at them.1
I thought the same thing as you when I asked that lol The only reason I can think is if the persons personality was just amazing but then I still think you would need some kinda attraction...0
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