This girl broke it off with me bout a 2 and a half weeks ago but I haven't talked to her in a week and a half. She said she felt like we were rushing into a relationship too quickly than she comfortable with right now because she's just getting out of a 4 1/2 year relationship. She says she needs time to work on herself. And says I just need to chill because she says she felt like I was pushing her into a relationship and I wasn't at all. I wanna text her so bad and just ask how she's doing. But I don't wanna seem like I'm pushing her into anything cause I'm not. I just wanna be friends. I don't get why we can't just handout as friends. Everyone said she always talked about me and always said how much she liked me. So how long do I need to wait to text her and if I text her and talk to her would it be too much to ask for us to like grab lunch or just hang out as friends? Please help me cause I really like this girl and don't wanna lose her. I don't know what to do, it's driving me crazy!
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Give her time, if she takes forever then she's obviously not interested and you can move on, don't be used, I'm sure you're great!0