If a guy shows you that he is interested into you, why do you think there can be just friendship between you two.
If you are not interested, that is one thing.
But why would you want to keep him around, knowing his feelings for you?
Are you that dumb, cruel or just plain evil?
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Most of the time girls are simply ignorant. They don't know male-female friendships are nonsense and that they can hurt the guy this way, so they keep him around.
True. Some just don't care about men's feelings, even though they know this friendship would be cruel to him and only benefitting her.
But you shouldn't demonize women alone for this. Men should also take responsibility for letting themselves be dragged into a torturous friendship. They are the ones who instead of saying: "I'm sorry, but if we can't date, I'm not interested in further communication with you.", say "Ok, yeah. We can be friends."2