last night I feel offended cos my guy is flirting in front of me, he go back to new york now... will I create drama or tension if i say this to him via email saying '' I do not appreciate the way you treated me the other night. Showing up with kiss marks on your neck, outwardly flirting with other women while we were together was demeaning to me.;''? am i sounds needy or desperate if i say it? we are long distance now i do not want him to think i am fighting or make him drama.. how could i tell him my problem without getting to argument? or is it best not to say it.
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Hmm, is this the same guy we talked about last year? I hope things have improved for you.
I think if you want some kind of balance and mutual respect in the relationship, you should say something. If you are more into the doormat thing, you could say nothing.
I think you can say it that way just to see what he says, but you should prepare yourself to end the relationship if necessary.
The choice is yours, really. If a guy leaves you over saying something like this, then he is a pretty bad guy (so its a good thing if he goes). You should at least expect some excuses.0