I'm 17 years old and I might be getting engaged in a few months to a pakistani man. I am very unfamiliar with the culture and I just have so many questions in my head... honestly there is so much I hear from people (most of the time, even pakistanis themselves) waving the "Beware" sign when it comes to desi/pakistani men. Now I, of course, in no way judge any culture or any race without getting to know it first... that's complete ignorance and im very opposed to ignorance.
I would really appreciate any help i could get on this topic. What is there that I should know about the culture? About Desi/Pakistani men in general? What should I be expecting? Oh and he is living in Pakistan too (born and raised there.) I'm going through a difficult crisis here and I would really, really appreciate some helpful feedback (honest feeback, of course!)
Please, no controversy/racism intended! LOL :)
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OMG my prayers are with you , I have dated a few pakistani men who grew up in Pakistan when I was in UK , I found it difficult even though I was born and raised in India , honestly 90% were perverts , selfish, opportunistic , narrow minded hipocrates , religious fanatics , specially when it comes to women they do not respect women. you must thinn 100 times before doing this. One of my indian friend is married to a pakistani guy , emotionally she is very unhappy (he actually cheated on her on many occasions while they were engaged , he got engaged to another woman just for getting British citizenship but eventaully got back to her when he got dumped by the brit ) however educated they are just be careful.1
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