I used to be a very bad cutter and I was very insecure.. and now I'm just insecure about my scars.
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Yes it bothers me. Everyone has scars, but if they are as bad as you seem to think it will be unappealing to most guys. The scars are not the biggest problem, but they will decrease her overall appearance. As far as the appearance of self harm scars go, normally I find tattoos uglier, but that is just me.
The bigger issue for me would be that I don't like the thought of her hurting herself, or the possibility she might do it again in the future. I have even seen girls get upset with their boyfriends and immediately self harm as a way to manipulate their boyfriends, because they know how much it would hurt him to see it. This has made me very concerned about dating girls that cut themselves.0