So I met this guy through a friend, well actaully we haven't met yet but my friend set it up and gave him my number. Anyways, so we've texted for 2 days now, and he texted me early today, and said hey, so I wrote back, but he didn't respond, this was at 3pm. So should I text him tonight, or wait till tomorrow? He been the one the past 2 days that has done the reaching out. I want to talk to him! lol Just don't want to come across desperate/needy if I text him tonight.
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I would definitely wait! That's great that's he's been the one initiating the texts (it means he's interested)...guys like the chase and they don't want a girl who's too available. The one thing I know for certain is this: if you're doing all the right things to let him know you like him (ie. flirting, complimenting him, etc.) and if he stops texting, calling, asking you out, then he's just not interested! Let him do the work...you're worth it! And texting can get lame after a while...wait for an opportunity and let him know that he should call you. For instance, if he asks you a semi-personal question in a text or if he says that you should get together, respond by saying "why don't you give me a call and we'll set something up" or "how about you give me a call when you're free? ...Talking is better than texting". If he says no or if he doesn't bother calling then don't waste any more time thinking about him.0