I am 13 years older than him but there is obvious attraction between us.He acts like a jerk, using psychological manipulation, e.g. giving other women a chair and not me, ignoring me, saying hello to all except for me.He enjoys seeing me hurt and making me jealous with a woman who hurts me.When I criticize him about his attitudes he denies everything and makes a big scandal, shouts at me, accuses me of being paranoid, crazy, etc.When I tried ignoring him, I saw him crying (he didn't know I was watching him).He felt terrible and then took revenge to make sure it hurts me.I give up already, because I don't know what to do anymore.He disrespects me and plays games with my head and my heart.Nothing I do is good.I said to him many times to have a normal friendship like the minimum respect and then he says ok and the next day he doesn't even know me, nor says hello to me.When I complain to his friends about him he denies everything, starts fighting, shouting, victimizing himself and casting all the blame on me.Please help me, I must bear him every week in the church, at the training, I suffer a lot because of his attitude as he really discriminates me in front of others.On very rare occasions he comes over to me to talk a little, shake his hands, and then he is all red, blushing and asks personal questions.But then he goes away quickly.
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so this guy is at max 22, possibly younger
the simple fact is he is immature.
as the adage says, 'no one can make you feel inferior without your permission'. so stop giving him permission. avoid him, don't hang out with him and whatever reason you have for being attracted to him should be completely invalidated by the fact that he is more or less an a**hole.0