I'm going on a first date tomorrow with a Scorpio male and I'm a bit nervous on how to act because Scorpios can be quite harsh. I was wondering on opinions on how to act, what I should wear to keep him interested and if these signs are compatible?
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I suggest you forget about Zodiacs.
For a first date, make sure you don't talk about yourself too much. Let the conversation bounce back and forth, give each other turn to speak. Ask about him. If there's something he seems proud of, ask him to elaborate further. Avoid political and philosophical topics. Be proud of who you are and what you do, but not prideful. Be humble, but don't put yourself down too.
Don't get caught up in emotions. If you think he seems like a good catch, remember to mention what a good time you had with him. Wait to see if he suggests a second date, or hint to him when you can see him again.
And don't be too desperate either. If you have your doubts about him, they are usually right. Don't try too much to make him like you, for e.g. agreeing with everything he said, or changing your personality too much. There was once I went out with a girl who was in the breakdancing/hiphopping crowd. I am introverted and more bookish, but I tried to "fit in". Well of course it was a disaster. But you definitely should try to go out of your comfort zone too. Be a bit different if need be, to adapt to him. But not too much that you lose track of who you are.2
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