Hi I've been seeing this guy for 6 months now he has been telling me he isn't ready for a relationship for a million reasons, he says he's in debt, he says he's damaged, stuff happened to him when he was a kid, he's afraid to let someone in. We never see eachother i either see him once a week or not at all we have been out in public twice on dates everytime i ask him about a date he says he's broke, but he's always going to concerts he tells me his buddies bought him the tickets. I dont like the fact that he's never been to my house either he's never met my parents he told me the reason he hasn't been over is because its hard for him because most of his family is dead. He goes out with his friends and friends that are girls and never includes me he says if i take you out with us its gonna be like were a couple he says he likes me. he also tells me he's not hooking up with anyone else but then he jokes about doing it though. he knows all these things bother me especaiily never seeing him. we talk everyday he texts me good morning and goodnight. we kinda act like a couple. He said he's afraid of gettig hurt his last rel ended 3 years ago...what do you guys think? you think he's lying to me? and seeing other girls?
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he's not lying to you, so what you need to do is be with him as much as possible, show you care etc he's depressed and damaged guys like this are easy to repair but only with a girl who TRULY loves him and shows it, if you dont know how than dont waste his time cause you'll just hurt him more0