I just asked a guy that is a couple of years younger to me but he refused me because of the age difference. He liked me as well but said he couldn't date me and wanned to be friends with benefits instead. What do you think of that guy?
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I have had three close relationships with older women. I enjoyed them all and even met one's affable ex-husband. I parted with one because of a jealous daughter and the others just faded away. I was younger then and felt I lacked the maturity to fill their intellectual needs and I could not fit in with their friends. I also sort of drifted away with younger women in my ambit.
Friends with benefits is okay, but since this guy says he cannot date you he seems a little slimy and only wants you as a sex toy. If he wants to avoid being seen with you get rid of him. He is only a bit younger than you, but does not seem too experienced with women. But if you are okay with his conditions, go for it without apology or regret.
If you want a close friendship with a younger dude, things are on your side because lots of guys ages 18 to 25 would love to learn from someone a bit older. Eye contact and a smile should have them buzzing about you like houseflies.1