Sometimes if I notice a guy I think is really good looking I will intentionally not look at him. I think I do it because I assume this guy gets checked out all the time and on some sub conscious level I don't want to give him the satisfaction of knowing that I, like all the other girls, think he's really hot. That sounds really ridiculous and mean to the guy, I think I do it instinctively. Even if I can see him checking me out of the corner of my eye, or I can feel him looking at me I will still refrain because in a messed up way I feel like I shouldn't give him the ego boost of knowing I think he's hot because he probably already knows that. Again, I recognise how crazy this sounds and is a bit mean to the guy. Do you ever find yourself doing this? Why do you do it? I've tried my best to explain why I do it but I think I might have fallen short on making sense. So guys do you ever intentionally not look about beautiful women? And ladies do you ever do this to exceptionally good looking guys?
Looking forward to reading your answers, the more details the better!! :)
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That is definitely me.
For example, people say that I am dense because no matter how much a guy is checking me out, I I ignore them. I just feel like they will get all egotistical and arrogant if I give them the satisfaction of knowing that I think they are hot. Some call me an ice queen, others say that I am playing hard to get, but it's just my thing. Today I even saw a bunch of hot guys looking at some dvds and when they saw me they all looked my way, but I sortta just scowled at them and swerved past them quickly. It's a natural thing for some people, trust me.2
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