I started going on dates with a girl to whom I really do like. We've been on quite a few dates, and she's been honest about her having dated other men while seeing me. I understood that she was wanting to look around, and to be fair. I went along with it for a little while.
After 10 dates. We end up getting to the point of being on her door step, and she asked me to come in. Well, we both knew what this meant, and I told her I couldn't, because I had to work later that evening (a lie, but I do often have late conference meetings with foreign clients.). So, I got out that situation for the time being.
During that last encounter. She had mentioned that night that she had been sleeping with one of the other guys that she was also seeing. At this point, I realized it wasn't what I was looking for, and now need help to kindly tell her that I don't date those kind of girls.
What would you suggest as to how I should approach the situation?
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Ten dates that's a lot she should of made up her mind by now. Say something along the times I'm not sleeping with you if you sleeping with other guys. Be straightforward and honest if she really cares for you and this "relationship" she will cut it out... But it seems like she likes stringing the guys along..2