He says he doesn't want to ask me out over the phone?

So we've been friends for four years. We just recently established that we both I guess have a crush on each other. So I asked him you know are we friends or what? He kept saying I don't know. So my friend kind of butted in and told him to ask me out. He told her he doesn't want to do it over the phone he wants to do it in person. I'm so confused. Like isn't it kind of the same thing?


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What Guys Said 1

  • No, because their is a device between two people and you can't see the reaction on the face.

    The phone adds an artificial barrier. That being said, in today's world women are used to the idea of being asked out over the phone and he should get over himself.


What Girls Said 1

  • yes it is cause in the end you get the same result