I've been with my bf for almost 2 years now and within the last dew months, he's been making comments about babies.
He'll say things like our baby would be..., or if we have sex and he finishes inside he'll say things like you're trying to have my baby aren't you.
What is going on? You don't think he thinks I want go purposely get pregnant do you? We use protection , im on the pill. I definitely do not want kids anytime soon.
Why do you think he's saying these things recently?
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I think it kind of sounds like he's saying these things to get a response? It may not be that he specifically *wants* a baby immediately, or is trying to get you pregnant. It could just be that he views your relationship as serious, and is trying to get a reaction out of you to find out how committed you are to him long term or to find out is that something you see happening with him one day, without having to lay his feelings out there and have a full on conversation, or get rejected in some way.
If it really bothers you , or makes you uncomfortable ( i for one would be totally weirded out about baby making being mentioned during sex, unless we were trying to conceive) I would suggest definitely asking him about it, and mention that you find it hard to relax during sex when he says that kind of stuff, hopefully he'll either explain it, or just say he's joking, take the hint and not do it again.0