you think it be easy to find a girl who wanted a free drink when at the bar but I keep getting shot down when ever I ask. and I've been asking girls I actually talked to and appeared interested in me yet each time they reject the idea usually politely and then just move on for rest of night. it was like it was a bad idea to even ask. I had though at time it would show them I was interested in them and willing to spend money on them. but whole thing seemed to give off wrong vibe or they felt uncomfortable with it.
so yeah based on my less than successful results should I just stop asking girls if they want a drink and just focus on talking to them instead? what are your thoughs? or was it ok to ask them , they just weren't interested in me enough to say yes at time
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I hate guys buying me drinks. Too many guys use it to make you feel like you "owe" them the entire night's attention (which sucks if you're there with a friend) or worse, sexual favors.
I'd focus on just chatting for a while and getting their numbers. If she's out with friends, she likely wants to hang with them.0
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