Background story: A month ago i met this guy at my cousins birthday, he asked for my number i gave it he texted me and for about 10 days we talked for over 12 hours a day. We hung out twice in the 10 days and the second time we made out. When we talked we talked about the fact that we were talking, getting to know each other with a possibility that in the future we could maybe be together. Two days after the second time we hung out he told me he wants to take things slow because he realized he doesn't want a relationship, i told him that's fine. I had a feeling he started talking to another girl and i wanted to know the truth so after he didn't text me for a few days i texted and asked to talk in person and he said he couldnt (yes i know lame of him) and asked me to talk about what i wanted in text so i did. I basically asked him to tell me the truth and i said i felt he started talking to someone else and i would rather him tell me if that was it and he denied it and just said the relationship thing again he apologized and told me im an amazing girl but his timing is not right. After that i saw him a few times at gatherings because he is friends with my cousins close friends. I had/have no hard feelings towards him but when he saw me he didn't bother saying hi or acknowledging me so i didn't say hi or pay attention to him.
I've also seen him at the gym twice so far and once again he doesn't say hi.
My issue is that i miss talking to him, honestly the 10 short days i talked to him i was so much happier and i felt like i was so much nicer to people. i dont know how to explain it but he had a good effect on me and i want this guy as a friend but i dont know how to talk to him.
I know that i should let him contact me and that if he really wanted to he would but i know he's not going to, so i need advice on how to contact him?
should i say hi at the gym?
should i text him?(although i really dont want to do that)
I don't know what can i do?
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Eh he sounds all over the place and kind of confused. Maybe he got back with an ex or something he wasn't completely over with and mentioned you to her (idk maybe I'm jumping the gun a bit). But as for saying hi to him I don't see why not. However I don't feel like texting him is a good idea, too personal especially for someone who hasn't even acknowledged your existence. I say a simple hi with slight interest and a nonchalant attitude should suffice. Ok lol answered. Can you answer my other post? Lol0