If I see a guy I'm attracted to at a lounge, NOT club, what is the best way to "pick him up"? I'm tall and I've been told I am gorgeous many times but when I go out no one EVER makes a move on me. I've excepted the fact that I have to take initiative but I have NO game! So.. How do YOU like to be hit on by a girl?
What is the best way to pick up a guy in a bar?
What Guys Said 9
Here's what I do. It might be a little different for you but the idea is the same, rather than make a move quick, escalate things step by step.
When I first talk to a girl I start to get closer to see how she reacts. If she backs off she probably. isn't interested, if she stays she probably is. Then I'll start touching, usually when I can't hear something she's said and lean in closer I'll put a hand on her waist/the small of her back. Again if she doesn't like it she'll back off, if she does she'll stay. I just keep getting closer and closer til I feel like kissing her then just go for it. After doing all that I only got turned down once, but then she kissed me later anyway. From then on it's pretty obvious you both fancy each other so the rest is easy.0
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Just go up and ask if they want to fuck.0
Men are squeamish about beautful women. The best way to meet someone you want is to ask him. If not, you may only get hit on by the drunkest since they will have lost their fear,0
A cleavage and be drunk. 99.99% it will work ha.0
i think a really bad pickup line could work :D he will not expect that from a woman.0
no girls hits on me, but if she did I would be pleasantly surprised, in all seriousness though just come talk to me0
What Girls Said 4
Honestly and the answers pretty obvious... The best way to pick up a guy at a bar would be to get him drunk.0
make sure to lift with your legs ;P1
Look good and make sexy eye contact. Don't get too hammered and don't be afraid to start a conversation.0
I've noticed guys are totally thrown off that a beautiful woman would talk to them first, you could say whatever you want really. Throw them for a loop and say hey handsome can I by you a drink? It blows them away0
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