Im a guy, and i sit infront of my crush. She had been my crush for two years already and i have her number
Sometimes she will kick my chair and disturb/play with me but I want more. What can i do to get her attention? And she knows i will ask her to shut up when she makes noise for fun and she will purposely make more noises, so the whole lesson we will smile to ourselfs like an idiot. I flirted with her alot, after classes we tend to have play fights and that made me had a lot of physical contact with her! But somehow i am afraid to ask her out and what can I do to make her want to get my attention more? Does it sounds like she likes me too?
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Okay, touching/play fighting is good sign, physical contact establishes a "bond" between people and it shows that she's comfortable with you. She definitely sounds like she's flirting with you, but... watch her and see how she treats other guys, does she do something similar? Does she act different with other guys than with you? Think carefully and observe that one okey-doke? Here's the thing, girls respond well to confidence, as long as you show her that you are confident in yourself it will show through. One way of possibly testing the water, is asking her if she'd be game to go meet up for coffee or cocoa over the summer, when you're with her, do some cute things, open the door for her etc. Plus if you test the waters with an invitation for coffee or cocoa or heck even Ice cream, worst case scenario she says no... and that's not a big deal because you didn't ask her out on a "date" or you can if you want to you know? You could also afterwards just say, "Hey, let me know if you're ever interested in doing something like this again." That way she knows that if she had a good time or wants to hang out again SHE has to contact you. Make first contact, give it a go and then see what happens. What have you got to lose guy? nothing, so go for it, why the heck not? And then, at least you can say I tried. : )
Best of luck!0