Ok, so this might seem like a silly question... and honestly I can't believe I am on one of these sites hah but here goes... I have had several long serious relationships but the past year I have just been trying to enjoy being single. That being said, I am starting to feel a little hopeless. Every time I meet a cool guy he is either just interested in one thing, a complete a hole or ends up liking my friend. I am a really down to earth laid back person but at the same time outgoing person. I love to laugh and make people laugh, I have a great job, lots of friends... I just get so down about wondering if I will ever find a good guy again. And back to the friend thing I have a certain friend I hang out with a lot and I love her to death but as soon as the guy likes me they meet her and instantly try to have a thing with her... its like why? I dont get it. Sometimes I just dont feel good enough... any advice would be nice :) Thanks.
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It's advice I am sure you have heard a thousand times, but holds true. Just be yourself. The right one has to be attracted to you, all of you. Don't force anything. There are good guys out there. Maybe get out of your routine to meet new people. If you see a guy that you find attractive, approach him. I know I can sometimes be intimidated by very pretty women, such as yourself, and talk myself out of approaching thinking either I am not good enough or she is in a relationship being that beautiful. Don't be on the prowl, but eyes open. Look for guys in normal places, not a bar or anything like that where they are on the prowl for one thing.
Beauty is inside and out. A guy with honorable intentions will get to know you and like you even more for what is inside, rather than just your physical appearance. It isn't easy finding someone comparable, and sometimes you have to re evaluate what you are looking for. Not saying to settle for just someone, but be real in what you want and need.0