This guy and I have been seeing each other/dating exclusively for a little over 4 months now. Everything has been going really well. Last weekend we spent all weekend together and I met his family. (I was nervous but I think it went well and they said they hope I come around again.)
We only see each other on the weekends due to the distance between us. He text me Sunday night after I got home and told me good night and everything. Monday and Tuesday we text/talked like we normally do. Wednesday we text but didn't have a phone conversation because of his softball games.
Up until this point we had not discussed doing anything this coming weekend. Yesterday afternoon he was snapchating me from bed saying he felt like he was getting sick. I was like aww you poor thing, wish I could make you feel better etc. I had a client event for work last night so I tried calling him a little after 9 P. M. he didn't answer. He text me around 10:30 P. M. saying he was sorry that he was asleep and felt whooped. I didn't respond to that text because I was sleeping by that point.
This morning he sent me another message saying sick day :( before I even responded to his message from last night. I responded back just saying that sucks and I wish he would feel better.
I don't think he has any reason to make up being sick. It's my understanding that he missed work today too. If he just didn't want to hang out with me then wouldn't he make up some sort of excuse instead of being sick? Keep in mind we never had any weekend plans to begin with. Ugh I just have been burnt too much in the past by guys that I tend to over think all of this. Help! What do you think?
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If you have doubts regarding he getting sick, why not pay him a visit? Tell him you want to make him feel better by taking care of him. Since his family already knew about you, I don't think it is too much if you drop by to his place since you have an excuse to attend a sick guy. Guys want to be taken care of at some point of their lives. If he says he's okay, tell him that if he needs anything you're there to give it. Don't be too paranoid or else you'll ruin what you guys have. :)0