I'll try and keep this simple.
I was seeing a great guy for a month or more. I felt we were clicking. We kissed a couple of times but it didn't seem to go further as we were out on dates. I found it hard to intiate intimacy as I was trying to guard myself from being hurt again.
This guy started losing interest and faded out. I suspect he has moved on. He has ignored my texts and has blocked me on fb and other accounts. He has completely cut me off without warning.
He has been on my mind and I am beginning to realise I might have forced him to dump me by my coldness towards him. However, he wasn't exactly forthcoming with his feelings.
Did I let a great guy walk away? or is it his loss? :-/
I realised I do really like him but the way he has treated me has reinforced the walls around me. Dont know what i should do.
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For the sounds of it, you did kinda of blow it. I understand your level of caution, but you need to realize that not everyone is the same. But, if don't give off a positive vibe, this the reaction you are going to get ever time. He may have picked up right off the bat that you were somewhat cold and didn't want to seem too pushy with you, maybe he was waiting for you to warm up a bit. Since you never really did, his time for you just ran out. Since he has blocked you, and is ignoring your texts, I would give up on this guy and try again with the next, maybe with a different approach.0