So I had never dated a smoker but tried to tolerate for once because she is hot and fun. Thing is she wants me to buy cigs for her at gas station before I pick her up , smokes in front of me were literally clouds of smoke go in my face , then she tells me I have to quit drinking Pepsi. So she orders water or non soda at restaurants when we go out because soda is really bad. Wait a second? Are u kidding me.. And smoking is not? I said I'll quit pepsi when she quits smoking... She just stayed quiet and said its too hard. What kind of girl am I dealing with here?
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Well, she's a girl. I don't like soft drinks because of the crazy amount of sugar they have in it (also I just don't like sweet things in general) and smoking does help in slimming down.
But yeah... bit of an idiot. I used to smoke, but I hated smoking while walking because I thought my habit was disgusting enough, no point in making other people suffer for it. She doesn't have that mindset to even be considerate about how you feel with the smoking. I guess she's a bit selfish... and ignorant. That would be the type of girl I would describe her to be, but based purely out of the very limited information I have gathered from your post.
The real question is what do you want to do about it? FORCING a person to quit will NEVER work. They have to WANT to quit... and by wanting to quit I don't mean "yeah I should since it's bad for me". NO. I mean "I value my health, my life and respect myself enough to want to make an effort in stopping this disgusting habit." THAT kind of resolve. =/0