I'm 18, I freaking LOVE my personality, hell more than my looks. My personality is my heart. I'm goofy, chill, smart, love video games reading and anime. But yet I realized that guys rather have me as a friend. I don't like dressing TOO girly, I wear wedges and sneakers instead of stilettos and pumps, shorts and jeans instead of dresses and skirts. I only polish my nails white or clear. But yet guys prefer party hard girly girls. They get the most attention. Why is that?
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I feel your pain. I am similar. I only got guys' attention when I wore skirts/dresses which annoyed me (not a fan of them!) I like reading, video games, WWE I will admit. I'm a little snappy at people and a tomboy.
My first answer would be nature perhaps? They may like the girls who aren't like one of the guys. One that is feminine maybe. Those party girls, though, do throw themselves SOMETIMES at guys and dress provocatively so guys see the obvious femininity. Ours is different or covered up. Those girls are boisterous and dolled up every minute of every day.
Which is how society has portrayed how women should be. Constantly sexed up, perfect bodies etc.
We choose to be different. We choose to not wear high heels, we choose the Docs (go everywhere in mine nearly!). We may be too like the guys to be differentiated.
But don't lose hope, as I am always told. Be strong and independent! You don't need a guy to be happy. Just go with how you are and someone is bound to come along. 7 billion people in the world, they can't all be the same can they?
Hope I helped. Peace, man :D1