I met someone last year and we courted for over 7 months, talked everyday, texted, shared photos. We developed a close bond. We finally met. He flew me out, paid for hotel and got a driver to get me at airport. He booked a table at a lovely french restaurant, he came to pick me up for dinner.
That's where it gets a bit weird. He was disheveled, but I didn't mind. I had already fell for him so looks didn't matter. We went to dinner. Ate at a record pace, he drops me off at hotel saying he was going to see his son, then as soon as I got to my room my cell phone rang. ( he must have called while in parking lot)
He said "I'm not attracted to you we should call off the weekend". I broke down I thought we we attracted to each other. He stated I'm a beautiful girl but there's no attraction he wished there was. We were together for only an hour. He then abandoned me to my own devices to find a way to airport after he changed my flight to leave next day, then blocked me on Facebook and won't be friends. I can only assume he was disgusted with my appearance. I don't know he said I was stunning on all my pics and at dinner said I looked just how he expected and like my pics. Sorry to ramble this just happened this weekend so it still painful.
Any idea what could have happened?
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You being pretty or not is half of the problem.
There are many MANY guys I know who I think are physically attractive, but am personally not attracted to.
I think there's a deeper problem here. Why else would he get rid of you so promptly? Sounds fishy. Perhaps when he met you, he recognized you from somewhere else? Maybe you used to date a friend of his or something when you were younger? You might know something about something that he wants to keep a secret.
You don't just cut someone out of your life like that after 7 months of constant contact, unless there's a serious issue.
He sounds shady. I know it hurts, but perhaps you dodged a bullet.1