So I read a lot of forums that say men will always be honest with what they say. However, if he suggests going out again, does he really mean it or is it possible he is just being nice? How do you know when a guy truly means what he says? Yes, you can wait for his actions and see what he does. But how often do men not say what they truly mean? To me, why bother mentioning going out again if you truly don't like the girl? I mean when I don't like a guy I am up front about not feeling a connection or that I am too busy. When a guy does that to me, easy peasy - not interested, ok got it. But this "let's go out again!" and then not hearing from them for a few days is nothing short of confusing. Yes, I have also considered: busy, has a lot going on, etc. I also haven't gotten my hopes up or anything and am continuing to live me life ;), just want a guy's perspective.
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You read a lot of forums that tell you something. And then wonder if it's true. YES it is, for the most part.
How can you know? You can't.
"But how often do men not say what they truly mean?"
Rarely, though we've been known to lie to get sex.
"why bother mentioning going out again if you truly don't like the girl?"
We wouldn't do that, normally. We might mention going out again but then circumstances could change. (We learn something about the girl, perhaps, which turns us off of her.)
"But this "let's go out again!" and then not hearing from them for a few days is nothing short of confusing. "
Oh get serious!! He's a guy, it's going to be a few days. That doesn't mean ANYTHING. Except that he's a guy. No need for confusion at all.
" I have also considered: busy, has a lot going on, etc"
It doesn't sound like it. It sounds like a typical girl, worrying because he's not at her beck and call 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.0