So, in all my dealings with women, I've found that the best way to attract women (and keep them interested) is to not give a shit. Basically, every girl that I blow off ends up liking me a lot. Seems like the less I care, the more they like me.
On the contrary the girls that I really like (that also like me at first) end up losing interest when I show them that I care about them. Soooo, I guess from now on I'll just adopt the I don't give a damn attitude, and I'll be ok. Because as soon as I show some interest it all goes down the drain.
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Ya. It's because you're better than them or at least signalling that you are, if they can't tell. It's natural. Women especially love chasing after guys who are better.
I don't personally think that's the ideal scenario though. Any girl who you have to "play" 24/7 is a fucking hassle. And any girl who isn't good enough for you is also a waste of time.
Aim higher. Don't play games. Keep the good ones :) We're all gonna make it bro!