I have been seeing this guy for almost 3 months now. For the first month and a half before he left for a 3 week long trip, things were great. We spent time together, he texted me often and he was affectionate towards me constantly. While he was gone for 3 weeks, he would Facebook message me when he could. He would tell me about his day and can't wait to be home and see me. Then the first week he came back home, we saw each other almost every day. Now the past week, when we have spent time together he seems different. One day he is kind of distant from me and the other he is affectionate and finds ways to spend more time with me. Its very confusing for me. And also he doesn't initiate texting with me or calling me. I'm taking it very personally. Usually I try to set a time to see each other again at the beginning of the week but this week I didn't. I maybe sense that he is getting tired of me. But that could be my paranoia talking.
Most Helpful Guy
Divine Wisdom dictates there are three kinds of relationships. The first is inhabited by two takers, short lived at best. When one or the other is done taking it is over. The second relationship is inhabited by a taker an a giver. It can go on for a very long time. The taker will take as long as the giver can give. The giver needs to be given to or they will eventually be sucked dry. This relationship is doomed to failure due to the fact it is unequally balanced. The last relationship is inhabited by two givers, HEAVEN on earth. Two people trying to out give each other. If you are not in a relationship that consists of two givers then I suggest you keep looking for the right relationship, it will save you a bunch of heart ache...0