This girl I've been dating for two months, tells me she's talking to other guy and likes us both but she's not ready for a relationship. She wants to stay friends and whatever happens happens, she wants me to not distance my self and treat her the same, she likes me a lot. But I don't want to be part of her confusion specially with another guy, I'm worth much more. I really like her but I know is best to move on. Question
1should I just stop contacting her? What to do if she contacts me?
2 treat her like I treat all my friends?
3 should I still like her instagrams/facebook post?
4 I just want her to see that I have a high level of confidence and not willing to put up with that. how should I behave with out being rude?
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1) I would cease all communication. I've been in this situation before and its not very nice to keep you at the end of the string AND talk to another guy if she says she's not ready for a "relationship". If she contacts you , ignore her! there's plenty of fish in the sea and one of them is bound to be the girl you deserve!
2) from my understanding its not her wanting to be friends, its her wanting to keep you around in case things dont work out with the other guy she is talking to. She wants something to come back to if things dont work out.
3) dont keep liking posts from her.. its not being mean, but you are simply letting her go and moving on! You dont want to keep her thinking you are interested and still tied to that string of hers if you keep liking her posts.
4) Being rude? Never! Use that confidence of yours and you tell her how you feel about it! If you dont like it, tell her! And if she doesn't like what you have to say, you will know it wasn't meant to be.
Hope it helps in a way.