In my life I've only had two girlfriends, one an ex and the other my current, both of which asked me out. Being the insecure wreck I was in my teen years I always wished girls would ask me out because I was too afraid to, so I guess you could say I feel pretty lucky that it happened twice. However, I imagine that many guys would feel emasculated or ashamed if this happened and that many girls generally don't do this because it's not "normal".
What are your thoughts?
- It should happen moreVote A
- Men should be the ones who initiateVote B
Most Helpful Guy
If girls don't want to ask guys out, then that's their thing. What needs to stop is the "I refuse to ask guys out" mentality combined with the "Why do men only go for bitches/sluts/plastics" crap. Either make an effort to get what you want, or be quiet and wait patiently. You can't have your cake and eat it too.0