Me: "It seems like forever since we last hung out."
Him: "I agree it seems like forever ago since we last saw each other! Give me a little more time to iron my stuff out and we'll see each other again."
It turns out he was planning on leaving the company he works for and is starting a new business. But not before he plans to take some personal time for the summer. So he was definitely being honest with me. The thing is.. We talked about this about a month ago. Do you think it's safe to ask him out now?
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There's no harm in asking him out at all. In fact, I always wondered about the reason why people (both men and women) still believe that its ALWAYS the man's job to make the first move, in spite of so many change sin gender roles in recent years.
Its actually a VERY positive thing if you do break out of the stupid 17th century tradition, and indeed ask him out. Irrespective of the result, you'd become a role model for other women who never make the first move even if their life depended on it, but then whine that guys never ask the out as often as they wanted. Good luck!1