So i met a guy online and we spoke for a week and, honestly there was an instant connection. He treated me like a princess and texted me lots, stayed up late to speak to me etc.
We finally met after a week of talking, he surprised me with flowers and was a total gentleman. After the meet I seem he is distant and I brought it up with him, that you have changed. He texts way less and is sort of emotionless. He told me that he does not want out and wants to pursue it further and that he really really likes me!! He said he has been hurt before and that he put up walls because he does not want to be hurt.
His basic explanation was i am proceeding with caution. It was easier to talk to you before we met because I would be hurt if you did not want me but now it would be worse.
DO GUYS DO THAT? If they like you even more? they put up walls and change? yet do not want to let go of you?
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He may have his own stresses and worries going on in his own life? Ask him something along those lines? Instead of why have you changed? Or thinking that. I can go kinda silent on my ex when we were together only happened a few times but I've noticed how absentish i can get if im stressed... nothing to do with my girl at all although it may look or seem that way. You met on the internet so who knowa he may not be the type you thought he was, give it a. little. more time maybe change the conversation just ask whats on your mind in other ways0