Sooo, this guy has told me he liked me and i like him too. now we've been texting for a while but he's like really oversexed and keeps bringing up kissing and 'other things' (subtly). He also send a picture of his upper body whilst showering.
Now he told me he loves me as well, not just random but actually: Baby, I love you. It came as quite a shock as we haven't even hung out together yet.
When we do see each other at school, he'll touch my leg with his, my arm with his or hold my hand in class rooms under the table, but won't be as active in the 'i love you; baby; honey; cutie' talk as whilst texting.
My friends keep telling me he's just playing me and I should leave it and I honestly don't know what to do.
Any advice, from a guys point of view?
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Does this guy have a reputation or track record of playing other girls? If so, I'm sure word has gotten around about him and so I'd probably suggest you don't get your hopes up and/or set yourself up to get hurt.
But if not, I wouldn't necessarily assume he's looking to play you. It kinda sounds like he's just doing & saying stuff he's seen/heard other guys do, and just trying way too hard. Like he might be trying to cover up his own insecurity or awkwardness in not knowing how to communicate his feelings to you. So anyway, if you don't already know this guy has a shady reputation with girls, I'd say give him a chance but be clear up front with him about wanting to take things at a pace you are comfortable with... cuz sometimes guys feel like they're expected to make moves on girls really fast, so just help him know what your expectations are so he can act accordingly. Good luck.1