Now I love her to death. We have been through a lot together. We have been together for 2 years now. She's been to all my football games, wrestling matches, and track meets. She comes with me to my photoshoots. And she supports me 100% on becoming a fire fighter after college. The problem is, I'm older than her, not by much, but since we are both younger it appeears a lot more than it actually is. She is 16 and I am 19.
Im attending a local community college for the next two years and when I transfer we were planning on transfering to a school together. The problem presented is completely about age, I'm not sure how long I can continue being with her without that coming up and being an issue since her mom doesn't like me. Now her mom is okay with us dating, but she doesn't like ME because I'm half black and white. (She doens't beleive in mixing races) She'd prefer that her daughter date a man who is fully Chinese. I am affraid that one day she'll snap or get upset and call the police or something and I'll be toast. If I was to be charged with a misdemeanor or w/e, I'd be kicked off my college team and I would have a hard time getting a job as a fire fighter, which is scary.
(Also I can't really talk to her mom since she ONLY speaks chinese...)
What do you guys thing?
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Well I am not much of an advocate of age differences being an issue if both parties are comfortable with the arrangement (and not just for the sexual side of it). However in your case the longer the two of you stay together the less of an issue it becomes with those busybody's who stick their noses where they don't belong. In two years she will be 18 and you 21 which is a very common combination of age difference for couples.
Hopefully your gf will not let her mother influence her decision to be with you.0