I am a guy and I have a best girl friend. She talk about everything and I mean everything. But recently I have falling in love with her. Her response was she only looks at me as a friend and doesn't want to ruin the friendship. I know many of you have given or receive that response from you best friends that you have falling in love with. I am curious now, I try to ignore her but she's the first to text me, as if she is interested in me. But after all she is my best friend so I don't see a reason to ignore me anyway. But I am wondering, is it possible that she may fall for me over time? We do hang out and i try to be romantic, not that I am really trying but I like to take girls out for nice nights of fun and fancy dinners. Just my thing. But aside that, is it possible she may end up falling for me if I continue to stay by her side and support her? Because when the time comes, I would still like to have some feelings for her before I find another girl to spoil.
I did a poll to get an idea of what to expect if she may fall in love with me overtime and she will forever look at me as her best friend.
- YesVote A
- NoVote B
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Absolutely! I am in love with my best friend, but I naturally call him my "best friend" all the time in order to protect myself from getting hurt (I cannot even emphasize on the amount of times I have friend zoned him lol). The thing is, is that when you are best friends, your relationship will only continue to grow... even if its not romantically. This means that her feelings for you can change tomorrow or in two years. The best advice I can give you is to just continue being her friend because you can't force your feelings onto her (this may cause her to repel away). Anyways, i am in the exact same situation as you so I know how it feels (it's heartbreaking). Just keep going and show her why you're the perfect guy for her :)0