I'm single, and at least 1 or 2 guys have a thing for me every year. Their not my type plus all they want is sex. I actually want a loving relationship other then just sex. I've been told I'm pretty by both genders. I don't know if their intimidated because I work out, and I'm a boxer. As well as competitive.
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There are plenty of men with their shit together. You are probably just looking in the wrong crowd. It seems you love working out so I am guessing someone who does too would be best for you. So why not search for where men who love exercising hang out: sporting events, gyms, ect... Try meeting men through activities you enjoy doing. People with similar interest with us are the best people to hit it off with. It's cool to go out cruising for men (had to tease you a little lol), but try to get really involved socially in what you like. It'll give you visibility, you'll meet new people, which will bring about new opportunities.
If you are only going to bars/clubs, it's not the only way to meet people. Switch it up a bit. I hope that helps. Good luck. Boxing is really cool btw.0