So I'm not 100% sure if we're dating but basically I'm interested in three guys, I talk, hang out with them, I've only kissed one, he made the first move. I feel weird talking to all three because I feel I'm gonna be leading one on... Is this how dating suppose to be, because everything just sort of happened out if nowhere. I just happen to be outside and attracted the attention of all three guys, obviously not at the same time and they gave me their numbers
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At this point it is too early to say whether you're dating too many guys at once. One guy kissed you, and you should probably put more effort into that one cuz it seems most promising. And slowly discontinue the other 2 guys.
However, this is the difference between how men date and how women date. Women have the advantage that they can sit back and see who comes along. So for you to be talking and testing out 3 guys for now is common. Girls typically have several men talking to them or trying to date them. here's the flip side
Men dont have that advantage. As a result, men have to go and pursue several women at the same time when its too early to determine if she is worth investing all he's got into one girl. Its important to keep that in mind, because chances are all 3 of them are talking to other girls while going on dates with you. Lets say the guy who kissed you IS only talking to you and nobody else. IF he invests all his time and energy into you, but then you choose one of the other guys, he wasted his precious time and dealt with the rejection. So to avoid this risk of rejection and wasting time/money, men will speak to more than one girl for a while until he trusts one enough to choose to have an exclusive relationship with her.1