Been seeing this woman a little while. After we first had sex, she would find ways to see me almost every day. If she wasn't around, she would text or call.
Lately things have slowed down. There is often 2-3 days between seeing each other. Then texting has dropped to maybe once or twice a day. First it was work was cracking down on texting, then she would get out of work and say "my phone is about to die. Left my charger in my desk. Talk tomorrow".
She still manages to fit me in occasionally outside of work, and days off I may get one of those days, the other for family or friends.
I do not think it is hopeless. I did just meet her family the other day. I also mentioned to her once I felt things were moving kind of fast.
Should I worry? Or is it her just making the most of her time and now she is beyond that initial "want to spend all my free time with you" phase?
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I think she's losing interest. Ignore her for a little while. Maybe for about a week. If she initiates a text or calls you, sound busy. Text back with as few words as possible.
If she really likes you then this will drive her absolutely crazy and she'll show interest in you again. Pinky promise c;
Sure relationship's tend to die down (I guess) but really? barely talking is not normal. And it doesn't seem like you've been together that long anyway.
I say ignore her for a bit. But actually BE busy. In your free time, hang out with other people, do something fun or do something productive.
Do yourself a favor and do not just sit around waiting for this girl. Otherwise you will just set up your relationship to stay this way as time goes on. She'll keep blowing you off and expect you to be eagerly awaiting for her arrival.1
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