So I've met this guy like maybe 4 times, he is an associate of my ex, whom I left 4 mos ago. I haven't dated anyone since. This guy is very handsome. He asked for my numbe over Instagram and we've been chatting for about a month or so, but haven't seen each other. He calls me here and there to talk, always tells me goodmorning. He lives an hr away and works a lot. Said we were going to get together but haven't made plans yet. He has talked about wishing he could cuddle with me, and once or twice made a sexual comment, harmless though. I brushed it off bc I want more than that. He said he thought I was beautiful since he first saw me. I just don't know what's going on, it's like it's not moving anywhere. I'm not clingy so I don't constantly blow his phone up, I sometimes just don't care for phones, I want real interactions.
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I don't know. The guy sounds pretty forward which usually isn't a great sign for somebody looking for something legit. Something I've noticed watching other guys interact with women is that when they don't want to mess something up (cause they like the woman) they are less likely to be forward. They are worried they might come across the wrong way and blow it. He hasn't even really hung with you in person yet, but he's talking about cuddling and your looks. My experience says that's usually not a great sign.
If he makes some plans with you, like a coffee date or something, why not? But just approach him with caution.
Also to add, the whole thing about him being an associate of your ex does somewhat throw up a red flag to me. More just a gut thing than anything though.1