So I met a guy today and he seemed really nice, actually struck me as a goody-goody. We talked for a bit then he gave me his number and we've been texting. We're gonna go to the movies tomorrow. But he asked me for a picture to use as a contact pic, so I gave him an oldish one.
He told me to take a new one but I said "nah I just got out of the shower" to which he replied "even better ;)"
Then he said he was bored laying in bed. I said "how fun" and he said "not really cause I don't have a cute girl with me. "
Aaand then he jokingly suggested I should spend the night so we can "have fun" with another winky face.
Should I think that he's just playful, or is he trying to sleep with me? I think it might be the latter because he met me today while visiting my town. He actually lives a couple hours away, and he's going away to the Marines in a month. He seems decent, but I'm not sure what to think.
Also, he met me at the lake. So I was in a bathing suit and I noticed him check me out.
I'm just worried he's only thinking about sex...
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Yes he wants in your pants, thats obvious. There was a guy once who struck me as a goody-goody but once i got to know him more (and i hung out in the guy group) i found out he is one of those guys thats like "so im thinking of cheating on my girlfriend", not good. Looks and manipulation techniques and certain personality traits can be deceiving, but dont fall into the trap. I real genuine guy will hold off the sexual and forward comments a bit longer and try to actually get to know you more first.2