So this friends with benefits starts dating this one guy and he was a really nice guy, but he was as she put it too immature, especially the one night where he offered to get her another drink, but then asked if she wanted on her tab and I was amazed, and I thought I was, out of touch with social convention. I'm sorry but where I come from you don't offer anyone a drink and then ask them to pay for it, I don't know what do you guys and gals think?
Ladies can I get your opinion on this, guys feel free to chime in on this as well?
What Girls Said 1
I agree. You don't offer something then expect them to pay. That's just rude.1
What Guys Said 2
yea that's cheap... no no.1
Social convention has been changing since the women's rights movement. Men and women are equal, let her pay for her own drink. But, he was nice to offer to do the foot work to acquire said drink.0
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