Girls, those of you who have been hurt by "players": I hear you decide to go for "nicer" men after; do you see that as contently settling for less?
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It depends on the "nice" guy in question. If I feel significantly less chemistry and enjoy myself with him less, then yes, I'm settling. I would never choose to settle.
However, if the chemistry is the same, and I enjoy myself with him the same, then on the contrary, I feel I've gone way above the "players" league.
The last player I encountered didn't really have much initiative or flirt skill either. He was used to girls doing all the work. However, I did have a lot of chemistry with him, and our sense of humor was the same, so that was important to me. It did not work out for obvious reasons, but it wasn't all because of his initiative (I would've appreciated more in this area!)0