A guy who was in my friend group at school recently started texting me. Just 'hi how are you' ect. at first but the other week he got drunk and messages me saying how attractive he thinks I am. He apologised afterwards, not that he needed to, I didn't care, I mean who doesn't like a compliment? Anyway I hadn't thought anything of it until yesterday when he messages me asking to 'go to dinner or a movie it something'.
Now here's the deal: I have hung out with him outside of school before but never one on one. He's never really given me the vibe he's into me that way but I do have a terrible record st recognising these things. I definitely do not want to go on a date with him but I wouldn't mind just a friendly catch up. So how do I agree to go out with him, while making sure he doesn't see it as a date without sounding presumptuous?
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thing is anything that is just a guy/girl one on one is pretty much a date in my view even if its not seen or agreed to as a date. dating these days isn't as clearly definied as it used to be and formal dates less common now. but just hanging out or such more common to take place. so yeah you can try and be more clear with him that your not looking to date but it be hard to not consider one on one time with him as not being some sort of date if your both single1